Recipe: Green Bean Summer Salad: Italian

Thursday, October 3, 2024

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Image: Green Bean Summer Salad/Italian by Gail K. Kachnycz 15 September 2024

RECIPE: GREEN BEAN SUMMER SALAD

     This salad uses summer's vegetables to create a colorful, cool side dish. It requires marinating in the vinaigrette overnight so it is easy to make ahead. Once again, no mayonnaise so great for sharing at an outdoor event. Enjoy!

GREEN BEAN SUMMER SALAD; ITALIAN

By Gail K. Kachnycz 15 September 2024

 

INGREDIENTS                                                NOTE: Salad must marinade overnight.                            

2 packages frozen cut Green Beans (16 oz size)

2 Red Bell Peppers

1-2 Yellow Summer Squash (may use crook-neck or straight)

            Note: If fresh summer squash is not available, may use corn kernels for yellow element

3 Green Onions

1 Teaspoon Mrs. Dash No-Salt Seasoning (Italian Blend)

   Vegetable or Olive Oil to sautee

   Vinaigrette Dressing to taste (can be bottled commercial dressing, Italian type)

 

Prepare the Green Beans (allow to be slightly crisp):

Steam the frozen green beans according to package directions. Using pot holders, remove steamer basket or drain beans into colander. Immediately plunge basket or colander into ice water bath to stop cooking process and retain bright green color of the beans. When beans no longer feel hot, remove basket/colander from ice water bath and allow beans to drain. 

Prepare the Peppers and Squash (allow to be slightly crisp): 

While the beans are steaming, core and cut the red bell pepper. Cut the yellow squash into pieces that are similar in size and shape to the pepper pieces. Sautee in oil until tender but not mushy. Salad ingredients should be slightly crisp. Remove from heat and allow to cool. 

Slice the green onions using the white bulb and the bottom portion of the green stems. 

In a large bowl, combine the cooled green beans, peppers, squash, and green onions. Sprinkle the Italian blend seasoning and mix well. Pour the vinaigrette dressing over the vegetables and mix well. Refrigerate overnight. Stir again before serving. 

NOTE: This mixture can be served cold or hot. To serve hot, heat in a pot on the stove or use a microwave safe dish to heat & stir in the microwave until heated through.   

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Happy Bloggy-versary!

Friday, September 27, 2024

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Image: Mike and me at Longwood Gardens September 2023

                                                           HAPPY BLOGGY-VERSARY

By Gail K. Kachnycz 26 September 2024 

     The end of September marks one year since A Map Through The Valley was launched. I would like to thank God for blessing this endeavor and using it to encourage and bless other care-givers and those they support.

     I would especially like to acknowledge my husband, Mike, for being open about the challenges he faces in his journey of chronic illness. He has been brave and generous in allowing me to share our experiences on a public forum.

     Sincere thanks also go to those people who have given of their time to be Beta Readers. Their thoughtful comments result in improvements before the posts are published. I cannot speak highly enough of my blog mentor and tech support, Julie. She makes the website look great and easy to navigate.

     Finally, thank you to all our subscribers. Many of you have responded with comments of how the posts have encouraged you. Some have shared resources or suggestions that have been featured on the website. A few have allowed me to relate your own stories. I have been reminded that many of you are praying for Mike and me, and for the ministry of the blog; thank you so much.

     It took almost three years from the time I first began to write essays until A Map Through The Valley was launched. During this first year going live, I have had a steep learning curve as far as technical information and entering the blogosphere. But, I have learned other lessons as well:

     Mike and I are not alone.

     There is a wonderful group of supporters for us.

     There are resources, support groups, and practical help in the wider community—often initiated by people who saw a need, based on their own experiences.    

     A Map Through The Valley has been active now for one year, but it is not my first effort at blogging. In 2017, I took a road trip with my younger son to Wyoming to see the total eclipse of the sun, and wrote a blog about our trip. Several months afterward, I published a post summarizing the experience titled, “Was It Worth It?” I recently read over that post, and realized that it set the stage for the current blog for care-givers. That trip and blog were important “Because I pushed myself beyond my comfort zone, daring to plan, and pray, and finally believe that this amazing trip could happen.” These same elements resulted in A Map Through The Valley.

     In the coming weeks I will be doing some self-care for refreshment and restoration. During that time, a couple of recipes will be published on the blog. They are very easy ones I developed as a busy care-giver. The butternut squash combination is one of my favorites for this time of fall harvest. You may also enjoy my blog from 2017. Here is the link:

westtrek2017 

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21 NKJV  


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Resource: Christian Mental Health Initiative

Saturday, September 21, 2024

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Image: Logo, Christian Mental Health Initiative. Accessed 21 September 2024

FEATURED RESOURCE: CHRISTIAN MENTAL HEALTH INITIATIVE

     This week we introduce the resource Christian Mental Health Initiative

     Just as Christians are susceptible to physical illness, they are not immune to mental illness. However, they may feel that a Christian should not struggle with mental health issues. Scripture passages such as 

"The joy of the Lord is my strength." Nehemiah 8:10

"I can do all things through Christ Who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13

seem to indicate that a Christian should not need professional counseling. However, just as a broken leg needs a medical doctor, a broken heart can require the services of a professional counselor. Secular counseling can be helpful, but a Christian appreciates counseling that includes prayer and an approach that recognizes the sinful nature of humans and the power of Christ to overcome sin. Tapping into healing by the Holy Spirit is a limitless source of comfort and strength, but at times personal support is needed to guide someone to the Healer. 

     The Christian Mental Health Initiative addresses many issues. During September, Suicide Prevention Month, these articles have been posted on their website. 



    

 I hope that this resource will be a benefit to care-givers and those they love as they explore other topics on this website.





  

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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Friday, September 13, 2024

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Image: Website Logo; 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

988 SUICIDE & CRISIS LIFELINE

     September is designated Suicide Prevention Month; September 10 is World Suicide Prevention Day. This week highlights 988, the emergency number to connect to help for a mental health crisis.

Access the 988 website here:  988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

     In the summer of 2022, the "988" program was launched in the United States; Canada initiated 988 in 2023. The purpose was to have a simple number to use in a mental health crisis, similar to "911" for a crime, fire, or medical emergency. 988 is easy to remember, rather than a 10 digit hotline. The program also unifies systems for specific populations. For example, after dialing 988, there are menu options to choose Spanish language or military veterans. Washington State has added a selection for Native Americans. Besides phoning, other methods to connect with the service include text and chat. The website offers access to American Sign Language (ASL) services.

     988 is active 24/7 every day. Conversations are confidential. On the website homepage you will see:



     The name of the program, "988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline," expands the scope of the assistance beyond only suicide, and emphasizes a positive path toward hope. The website also provides resources for those who want to support a family member or friend in getting the help they need. 

     Please make a note of this emergency number, and also inform others.  





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Fred and Edith: Extraordinary Story

Monday, September 2, 2024

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Image: Fred & Edith Duling, at home June 2014

FRED & EDITH: EXTRAORDINARY STORY

By Gail K. Kachnycz 31 August 2024

     “One moment your life is normal, and the next, it’s not.” That is how my friend Edith describes December 6, 2010. On that day, her husband Fred was found unconscious on the floor in the vestibule of the Malta Boat Club. He was alone in the building, stringing Christmas lights, so no one knows exactly what happened. He was discovered by a fellow member of the boat club who had returned to the boathouse to retrieve his jacket. This is just the first of many demonstrations of God’s grace and mercy. Because the foyer was not heated, Fred was exposed to the December chill and his body temperature had plummeted to 86 degrees F. He had sustained multiple facial fractures, but most significant were the injuries to his spine. He was paralyzed below the shoulders and had little movement of his arms and hands.

     After 45 years of marriage, Edith was looking forward to retirement with Fred. She had cared for her elderly mother until her passing. Perhaps now they could travel. Fred had spent many years in the sport of rowing and had participated in many international events. In 1977 and 1978, he was on the podium, placing 3rd in the 2-man event at the World Championships in Amsterdam and Copenhagen. He earned first place in other events in Canada and the US from 1975 to 2009. He began coaching rowers in 1980 and continued in various coaching capacities through the 2000’s.

     On Thanksgiving 2010, he completed a 5-K run as he had done for decades. Less than two weeks later, he was on the brink of death. Immediately, Fred and Edith were surrounded and supported by family, the rowing community, and their church fellowship. The road to recovery was arduous, but Fred met the challenge. On October 25, 2014, he was back on the Schuylkill River, rowing in a specially adapted 2-man shell. Fred’s supporters created the website, www.pullforfred.org 

which includes Fred’s story of athletic achievement. It also explains the nature of his injury. The website notes, “In order to master life after a spinal cord injury, you need courage, commitment, and a sense of challenge. I think we all know that Fred possesses those qualities.”

     Edith was immediately thrust into the caregiver role again. Not only did she provide Fred’s physical care, but she arranged for adapted equipment such as a motorized wheelchair and wheelchair-accessible van. She became his advocate for individualized medical treatments, since due to his impaired nerve function he often had atypical reactions to medications or subtle symptoms that worsened rapidly.

     When my husband Mike went on long-term disability in 2012, and hospice was recommended in 2018, Edith helped me navigate the caregiver role. She provided a listening ear and shared her experiences. As caregivers, we spoke the same language. When I was just starting to write blog posts for the website A Map Through the Valley, Edith encouraged me, saying, “You put my world into words.”

     Early estimates of how long Fred would survive after the injury were rather open-ended, but usually projected about 18 months to two years. Fred surpassed those time frames by more than a decade, due to the physical and mental training as an elite athlete, but also due to Edith’s expert caregiving. The impact of the prayer support of their church fellowship cannot be measured. This was made quite evident during his most recent hospitalization. Edith was extremely cautious about protecting Fred from exposure to Covid, but this summer he became infected for the first time with the virus and it progressed to pneumonia. When the request for prayer was made, I must confess that, as a nurse, I did not hold out much hope for recovery. Many people his age had succumbed, even without the complication of spinal cord injury. However, inside his frail body was a world-class athlete. For three weeks, he battled the infection and we prayed. What rejoicing there was when he was discharged for a course of rehab before returning home!

     On September 5, Fred will be 80 years old. He beat the odds, by the Grace of God. We salute Fred and Edith as they celebrate this milestone. In different ways, they are both coaches, and definitely world-class.

Fred (on the right) with Rick Stehlik, 3rd place finish at World Championship 1977 Amsterdam

Fred (on the left, still a champ!) in his adapted shell, Schuylkill River, Philadelphia PA 2013




 

 

      

 

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SONG & VIDEO: God Is In This Story

Wednesday, August 28, 2024

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Image: Lyric Video on You Tube; God Is In This Story

     This video was sent to me by a friend who is in one of the prayer circles that pray for Mike. I think he intended it as an encouragement for our long-term challenges, but it arrived at a time when I needed a reminder of God's faithfulness for a specific situation I was experiencing that day. 

May this encourage you today and as you continue your journey of care-giving.

 connect here

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Recipe: Cucumber Blueberry Feta Salad

Wednesday, August 21, 2024

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Image: Wegman Recipe Circular Summer 2024

RECIPE: CUCUMBER BLUEBERRY FETA SALAD

Shared 8/21/2024 by Gail K. Kachnycz

     Summer is time for many gatherings: Memorial Day, Juneteenth, Independence Day, Labor Day. Families often plan reunions during this time as well. My husband Mike decides whether or not to attend an event according to the weather or how he is feeling at the last minute. So, I am often the one who represents our family at the gathering. I look for a dish to bring that is easy to prepare and transport. During the summer, I also want it to be stable in warm weather while it is set out to be served. Cucumber Blueberry Feta Salad fills the bill, and takes advantage of seasonal ingredients. I happen to grown mint on my front porch, so that was an easy addition. I prepare the cucumbers and rinse the blueberries at home, then assemble the salad just before serving. I could not find the dressing specified in the recipe, so just used a vinaigrette I had on hand, and got rave reviews. Enjoy!



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Supporting Decisions

Wednesday, August 14, 2024

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Photo: Pixabay; accessed 7/3/24

SUPPORTING DECISIONS

By Gail K. Kachnycz on 20 March 2024 

     During chronic illness, so many aspects of life are out of the control of the affected individual. It is important to support the decisions made by your loved one, since that allows control in some areas. Supporting a decision could be as simple as providing choices for the day’s apparel, meal options, or activities. However, things can become more difficult when the choice has a larger impact on life; for example: how to spend money, where to live, or end of life plans. 

     In our situation, it is very important to Mike to manage all aspects of his medical care. He arranges for prescription renewals, refills, and picking up the medications. He makes his own medical appointments. A high priority is selecting medical providers who listen and collaborate in his care. Mike is a medical “zebra,” that is, someone who does not have typical symptoms or respond to the usual medical treatments. He has unusual side effects to medications. He needs doctors who are creative and think outside the box, rather than those who limit interventions only to the standard treatment protocols. 

     Sometimes it is difficult for me, as I watch appointments be delayed because Mike is requesting a 30 minute session instead of the standard 15 minute slot. He would prefer to travel to see a doctor who has left a practice and moved farther from us, rather than just accept another provider at the office nearby. His complicated medical history and atypical reactions to drugs means it is important to him to stay with a provider who knows him, rather than explain everything to someone new. 

     Unless the consequence of the decision is dangerous, try to support decisions of your loved one, even if they are not the choices you would make. Sometimes it means the result will be “good” rather than “best.” However, making his or her own decision is a positive action in itself. It will give a sense of control and acknowledge what is important to your loved one. It can be frustrating, but recognizing the positive effect of making choices helps shift the focus from the immediate situation to the long term benefit. 

     It doesn’t hurt to suggest an option. How the idea is introduced can increase the appeal. For example, using the phrase, “What would you think of [X]?” rather than saying, “Why don’t you do [X]?” which might be interpreted as a challenging statement. Once you ask what they would think of an idea, really listen as they express their thoughts. There may be a reason for their choice that you did not realize. From that point, you can either agree with them, or suggest an alternative. Once again, use non-threatening language such as, “What if we do [X]?” or again, “What would you think of [X]?”

     Sometimes the choice will seem totally illogical to you. Once, Mike hung a mirror on the wall over a stairwell. As a nurse, I had seen the deep slashes caused by broken glass doors and mirrors. I asked him to remove it. He argued with me, showing me how securely the mirror was fastened. I replied that in a house of boys, something could be thrown that would break the mirror, shattering it even if it did not fall. I remained steadfast in my belief that a mirror over a stairwell was just a guillotine waiting to happen. Seeing that he would not convince me otherwise, he removed the mirror, even though he thought my fears were unfounded. Supporting decisions, even when you may not understand the thought behind it, goes a long way in showing your loved one that you respect and value them. Say “yes” whenever you can. 

Bible verses on relationships/communication:

Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility consider one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4 NASB2020 

A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.

The tongue of the wise makes knowledge pleasant, But the mouth of fools spouts foolishness.

A soothing tongue is a tree of life, But perversion in it crushes the spirit.

Proverbs 15:1-2, 4 NASB2020

 

Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord.

Fathers, do not antagonize your children, so that they will not become discouraged.

Colossians 3: 20-21 NASB2020


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Heroes In Houston

Wednesday, August 7, 2024

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HEROES IN HOUSTON (July 24 is the 55th anniversary of man landing on the moon) 

By Gail K. Kachnycz January 13, 2022 

     As a child growing up, I followed the Apollo Space Program with interest. The timeline of the program, 1961 through 1972, roughly coincided with my school years. I vividly remember myself, as a young first grader, sitting on the floor of the multipurpose room in my school as the whole student body assembled to watch the launch of a manned space rocket. As I grew older, the Apollo program advanced, growing ever closer to the goal of placing a man on the moon.

     I also remember July 24, 1969, waiting not so patiently for Neil Armstrong to step out of the Lunar Module [LM] onto the moon’s surface. In all, there were 17 Apollo missions. The one that impressed me the most was the one that never landed a man on the moon: Apollo 13. 

     The flight of Apollo 13 in 1970 was uneventful until 10:08 PM EST on April 13, when Jack Swigert, and then Jim Lovell, spoke the now famous words, “Houston, we’ve had a problem.” Damaged insulation on wiring in an oxygen tank ignited during a routine stirring of the tank, causing an explosion which emptied the oxygen from that tank. Without sufficient oxygen in the Command Module, the astronauts relocated to the LM to conserve what resources remained. The moon mission was scrubbed and the focus became bringing the astronauts safely back to earth. It seemed that the whole world watched and waited, hoping to see the men return.

     In Houston, Mission Control was working around the clock, tasked with finding solutions to a myriad of problems. The LM was not intended to support three men for four days, and rising carbon dioxide levels could suffocate them. The carbon dioxide scrubbers from the Command Module were incompatible with the scrubbers in the LM, but the ground crew developed a way to adapt and combine the systems, using only materials that were on board the spacecraft. The flight pattern was altered to use the gravity of the moon to provide momentum and “slingshot” the spacecraft back to earth. Careful corrections or “burns” of the rocket engines had to be calculated to position the spacecraft at the proper angle for safe entry through the earth’s atmosphere. Too sharp an angle, and the capsule might burn up. Too shallow, and it might “bounce off,” hurling the spaceship to outer space, beyond hope of returning. 

     At the time, I was a high schooler, and was following all the news reports of the mission. I understood to some degree the grave danger the astronauts were facing. However several weeks before, we had celebrated Easter, the Holy Day which proclaims that the power of death has been overcome. It was the first Easter that I personally trusted the Savior to pay the price for my sins and restore me to my Heavenly Father. I couldn’t believe that Jesus would die to redeem mankind, and then allow three men to careen off into space. God had a purpose for mankind, that purpose was on earth, and He would bring those three astronauts back to earth. I prayed for them with the hope of that conviction. 

     On April 17, 1970, millions watched the televised splashdown of the Apollo 13 capsule. The world breathed a sigh of relief as the three men, fellow humans and brothers to us all, were plucked from the Pacific and brought to safety. The faces of Jim Lovell, Jack Swigert, and Fred Haise were on the front pages of every newspaper. But, I think they would be the first to agree that the ground crew at Mission Control were just as heroic: they faced a situation where failure was not an option, and delivered success. Apollo 13 demonstrated the dedication and determination the ground crew brought to every mission. 

     As a care-giver, recognize that you need a "ground crew," not only for prayer, but for practical help. Share your practical needs with others, and you will find people willing to lend a hand, some occasionally and others who will support you regularly. When Apollo 13 realized they needed help, they reported it immediately and the Ground Crew went into action. 


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JULY: DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH

Wednesday, July 31, 2024

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Image from www.npr.org "In Their Own Words: How The Americans With Disabilities Act Changed People's Lives." Accessed 7/31/2024

JULY: DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH        By Gail K. Kachnycz on 31 July 2024 

     Some people may not think of themselves as care-givers because they do not provide hands-on care to their loved one. However, being an advocate for someone who needs modifications or special support is just as important as physical care. Often it can be just as demanding or time consuming.

     July has been designated Disability Pride Month, to commemorate the passage of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA).

“On July 26, 1990, the Americans with Disabilities Act banned discrimination based on disability in all parts of public life. People with disabilities could no longer be denied access to jobs, schools and transportation. The law also included private places that are generally open to the public, such as restaurants and movie theaters.” [1]

    A recognizable result of this law is the modification of public sidewalks with curb cuts and ramps to the entry point of buildings. Opportunities for employment and education opened up.

     Other red-letter dates include:

1975: Public Law (PL) 94-142; The Education for All Handicapped Children Act. This guaranteed a Free and Appropriate Public Education (FAPE) for children with disabilities. In 1990, PL 94-142 was reauthorized by Congress, and the name of the Act was changed to the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) to use more contemporary and respectful terms. [2]

1984: Halderman v. Pennhurst State School and Hospital. On January 23, 1984, the US Supreme Court decided in favor of Terri Lee Halderman and her family, and ruled that “an institution must be closed based on a constitutional right to community services.”[3] This resulted in dozens of disabled individuals being transferred from living in a large institution in Pennsylvania, to living in small groups in community settings, known as “community living arrangements” with special supports. Since the ruling was from the Supreme Court, individuals in all states were afforded these protections and freedoms.

     In the situations described above, the people who needed to have their rights and freedoms secured required advocates to demand that they be treated with the care, respect and dignity that they deserved. Compassion, patience, and tenacity resulted in legislation and litigation that has benefited those with disabilities nationwide. As Disability Pride Month comes to a close, we salute advocates, both on the public and individual level, who demonstrate the Golden Rule in action. 

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12 KJV

you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD. Leviticus 19:18b NKJV 

[1] www.npr.org In Their Own Words: How The Americans With Disabilities Act Changed People’s Lives, Morning Edition 7/27/2020. Accessed 7/31/2024 

[2] http:www.ed.gov/print/policy/speced/idea/history.html Accessed 3/9/2005 

[3] en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennhurst_State_School_and_Hospital_v._Halderman

     Accessed 6/25/2024

[3] http://www.preservepennhurst.org Accessed 7/30/2024


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CHRISTMAS IN JULY

Wednesday, July 24, 2024

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CHRISTMAS IN JULY by Gail K. Kachnycz

     Is Christmas “The Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” or do you anticipate it with fear instead of cheer? Now that I am retired, I have time to plan ahead more easily. When I was still working, full time during the week and part time on the weekend, there was less time to devote to preparing for celebrations and parties at both jobs, church, and with family. My husband was still able to handle gifts for family, and was always better at that than I was. However, I felt a bit overwhelmed with making a dish or dessert for four parties, gifts for my co-workers, and hosting Christmas brunch and dinner for our immediate family and often hosting Christmas Eve for extended family. Over the years, I learned some tricks to decrease the stress and place more emphasis on the holiday traditions that are meaningful to me. 

1. “CLEAR THE DECKS…with boughs of holly” Clearing the decks means removing everything from the schedule that you possibly can, reserving time for those events that are important to you. Some ways to do this would be:

a. Schedule any routine events, such as dental appointments, car maintenance, etc. for either before mid-November or after the New Year.

b. Change Christmas cards into “Holiday” cards. I learned this from a friend, who sent out greetings in February, stating, “Groundhog Day is a holiday, isn’t it?” I have many relatives and friends who live some distance away, so I like to send a newsletter. I now plan that it is a “New Year” letter, but it might arrive near Groundhog Day, Presidents Day, or even St. Patrick’s Day.

c. The freezer is your friend. If you are expected to provide homemade cookies at work or family or church parties, choose ones that freeze well, and have a baking day some time during the fall. 

2. Take a tip from Tevye, “TRADITION…TRADITION!” Many of the cherished memories of Christmas are of events, foods, or music that happened every year. Use this to your advantage, so you don’t have to re-invent the wheel time and again. Put the dates for parties, concerts, and other events in your calendar as soon as you know them.

a. Toward the end of my career, I discovered a dish for sharing at work parties that could be made ahead, refrigerated, and did not need re-heating. One co-worker reminded me every time she saw me until I sent her the recipe. It became my go-to for pot-luck events. The recipe for Quinoa Salad was published on May 23. If possible, become known for bringing the same dish or dessert to large meals. You have the advantage of knowing how to prepare it, and having the correct equipment/serving dish. The host has the advantage of counting on your contribution to the meal (always confirm with your host).

b. If you are responsible for gifts, consider a membership that can be renewed every year. I have received memberships to gardens in the Delaware Valley and enjoy these very much.

c. Budget for charitable donations. The Christmas season is a time of giving. Some charities make special appeals at this time. “Giving Tuesday” has become a tradition.

d. Make a list, check it twice. I have a master list for Christmas as a document on my computer; it includes family/friends, church, and charities. I have changed it slightly each year, adding new family members or removing the work obligations once I retired. Preparing the list (maybe in July?) means you can take advantage of sales online or in stores. For example, if you prepare shoebox gifts for Operation Christmas Child, you can take advantage of sales at the end of summer and back-to-school specials.

3. ALL IS CALM…ALL IS BRIGHT One of the most important parts of the Christmas season is including the traditions or events that are meaningful to you. This is part of self-care for a care-giver. My church tradition when I was growing up included celebrating the Advent Wreath the four Sundays before Christmas, and the candlelight service Christmas Eve. I especially enjoy the carols and hymns of Christmas. If attending a service like this in person is difficult, check for special holiday concerts that are being broadcast; check listings on Public Television. Recording the program and watching it when you are able could be very restorative. For stories that focus on a more simple celebration of Christmas, I highly recommend A Charlie Brown Christmas and It’s A Wonderful Life

Linus quotes Luke 2:10-11

     If you have suggestions to make the holidays easier, a tradition you enjoy, or a recipe, please send me the information. I will share the ideas in the posts that publish recipes. Contact me:

amapthroughthevalley@gmail.com

 


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Recipe: Peach Crumb Oatmeal

Wednesday, July 17, 2024

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Photo: Gail K. Kachnycz: Peach Crumb Oatmeal 

Summer is peach season. I searched for the perfect Peach Cobbler, but just couldn't find something that was sturdy enough to absorb the juice of the peaches without turning to mush. So, I turned to my old stand-by: Baked Oatmeal. I tweaked it a bit and added my mother's crumb topping. Brown sugar & cloves give it a hearty flavor that doesn't fade away when topped with vanilla ice cream. The recipe below uses canned peaches, so it can be made any time of the year. When using fresh peaches, just substitute a cup of milk instead of the light syrup & dry milk. 

PEACH CRUMB OATMEAL shared by Gail Kachnycz  12/2021

TIME: Bake 1 hour, prep 30 minutes?

Ingredients:                                        NOTE: have a ready a batch of Helen’s Crumb Topping

1 can (29 oz) canned peaches, light syrup      or make the crumb topping while oatmeal bakes:

1/3 cup dry milk                                              1 cup rolled oats

3 cups oatmeal (quick or regular)                    ½ cup butter

1 teaspoon baking powder                              ½ cup brown sugar

1 teaspoon salt                                                1/3 cup flour

3 teaspoons cinnamon                                     1-2 teaspoons cinnamon

1 teaspoon cloves                                            ¼ teaspoon nutmeg

1 cup dried peaches, cut up                            Cut butter into the other ingredients until crumbly

2 beaten eggs                                                  Place on top of anything; bake 30 minutes at 350 F

½ cup vegetable oil                                         Left over crumb topping stores well in the fridge!

2 over-ripe bananas: if frozen, thaw in fridge in a container overnight

NOTE: If using fresh peaches, substitute 1 cup milk for the light syrup and dry milk

Instructions:                                                   Preheat oven to 350 degrees F

1. Drain the canned peaches into a large bowl. Cut up the peaches into chunks and place in a medium bowl. Sprinkle with 1 teaspoon cinnamon and 1 teaspoon cloves & mix together.

2. Mix the 1/3 dry milk into the peach liquid & stir to dissolve the milk powder.

3. In a medium bowl, mix together the dry oatmeal, baking powder, salt, and 2 teaspoons cinnamon. Once mixed well, stir dry ingredients into the peach/milk liquid in the big bowl.

4. In medium bowl, mash bananas until smooth. Wisk in the beaten eggs and then the oil.

5. Add the banana/egg/oil mixture to the oatmeal mixture and stir until well combined.

6. Add cut up dried peaches to the oatmeal and stir until dried peaches are evenly distributed.

7. Use a 9x11” or 9x13” baking dish, spray with non-stick spray. Spread oatmeal in evenly.

9. Spread the cut-up canned peaches evenly over the top of the oatmeal.

10. Bake 30 minutes. Remove from oven and spread crumb topping over the peach layer. The full batch of crumb topping does not need to be used, just use enough to coat & to your liking.

11. Return the oatmeal to the oven and bake 30 more minutes.

12. Allow to cool and enjoy. May be served warm with vanilla ice cream or coffee creamer. 




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Celebrate Freedom Part Two

Wednesday, July 10, 2024

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Image: Liberty Bell, Philadelphia PA; National Park Service
Proclaim liberty throughout the land unto all the inhabitants thereof...Leviticus 25:10 KJV

CELEBRATE FREEDOM PART TWO

By Gail K. Kachnycz 30 June 2024 

     The story of Juneteenth (published 6/26/24) has a spiritual parallel that I began to see more clearly as I researched the topic for that post. The correlation emerged as I identified the timeline of events that led up to the release of all enslaved people in Texas. Historical dates were never my strong point. My investigation revealed that the Emancipation Proclamation was to take effect January 1, 1863, but the slaves in Texas were not freed until two and a half years later. Why was there such a delay?

     First, I had to set aside my 21 st Century mindset, with 24 hour news coverage and instant access by phone in any location. Printed copies of the Proclamation would not be accessible to an illiterate population of African Americans. Even if the message had been sent by telegraph, the most rapid form of communication in the 1860’s, those in power would have no reason to comply with the mandate, because there were no troops in place to enforce the order. Texas, the most western state in the Confederacy, was not occupied by Union soldiers. When I learned this, it was my “ah-hah” moment. Texas was waiting to see who would win the war.

     If the Confederate States had been successful in defeating the Union, Texas would have gone on as before, with no change. The Emancipation Proclamation would have no jurisdiction in a separate sovereign nation. However, with the surrender by General Robert E. Lee to General Grant on April 9, 1865, the Confederacy began to crumble. By June, Union forces reached Texas. At the time, Galveston was a thriving port and the largest city in Texas. Surrender terms were formally signed June 2, 1865 by General Edmund Kirby aboard the USS Fort Jackson in Galveston Harbor. Sixteen days later, Major General Gordon Granger arrived in Galveston with 2,000 Union troops. With the manpower now in place to enforce the decree, Granger issued the emancipation order the very next day, June 19th.

[https://easttexashistory.org/items/show/160 accessed 6/26/2024] 

     I hope that you are also seeing the spiritual parallel. How often are we held captive by fears or lack of belief? The scriptures are our Emancipation Proclamation, declaring the truth of God’s word. However, we may look at the circumstances around us, thinking that is our reality. The truth is,

  we are free because Jesus won the battle.

     Through His death and resurrection, Jesus has defeated sin and death. The Devil must surrender. Jesus has sent the Holy Spirit into the world and into our hearts, the “manpower” to enforce the freedoms that the victorious Christ obtained for us. 

     What fear is holding us captive?

     Worry? Jesus won that battle.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 NKJV

     Financial collapse? Jesus won that battle.

And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 NKJV

     Damaged relationships? Jesus won that battle.

For with God nothing will be impossible. Luke 1:37 NKJV 

     The death of a love one? Our own death? Jesus won that battle.

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16 NKJV

     Chaos and upheaval in the world around us? Jesus won that battle.

These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world. John 16:33 NKJV 

     Whatever distressing thoughts may crop up, immobilizing us and robbing us of our freedom, we need to remember: Jesus won that battle; we are free.

And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. John 8:32 NKJV

Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed. John 8:36 NKJV


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Resource: Vision for Equality

Wednesday, July 3, 2024

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Logo: Vision for Equality

Hello to fellow Caregivers, this information came to me from Donna, the "Special Mom" featured in the Mother's Day post May 8. Please feel free to share with anyone you feel would be interested or benefit from this support. Here is the information from Visions for Equality: 

Hi! My name is Sarah.  I am a Family Support Specialist for the Birth-Five project, part of Vision for Equality’s Philadelphia Family Support Projects. The projects provide one to one peer support to assist families navigate supports and services for their children with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD), including autism.  In addition to peer support, the program provides support groups and trainings for caregivers. We can also provide training to community organizations who support people with I/DD and autism.
The Philadelphia Family Support Projects would like to provide support to faith communities through a workshop. The workshop is How to Support Individuals with I/DD and Autism in Faith Communities, with the goal to assist faith leaders and faith communities by providing them the knowledge and skills needed to welcome and support people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (including autism) and their families who live in their community.
This workshop will cover the following:
  • How to move existing barriers to allow for full participation in spiritual and religious activities.
  • How to foster, build, and maintain relationships, in other words create a sense of belonging.
  • How to use affirming language, participating in respectful interactions, and assuming competence.
I have attached the flyer to the workshop.
Please pass this information to your employees, colleagues, or other faith leaders.
We want to reach as many faith leaders as possible and would appreciate your support and assistance.
Thanks for your time and consideration,
Sarah



Sarah Leaman
Family Support Specialist
Philadelphia Family Support Projects
   
         The Cast Iron Building
          718 Arch Street, 6N
          Philadelphia, PA  19106
          (215) 923-3349 ext. 207




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CELEBRATE FREEDOM Part One

Wednesday, June 26, 2024

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Juneteenth Flag

CELEBRATE FREEDOM                         PART ONE

By Gail K. Kachnycz 26 June 2024 

     Philadelphia has always been proud to be the location where independence was declared in 1776. Celebrations have included reenactments of the reading of the Declaration of Independence and free admission to various museums, parades and over-the-top concerts capping off “Freedom Week.” Since Juneteenth was designated a federal holiday in 2021, special events now take place for 16 days, June 19 through July 4.

     I was unfamiliar with Juneteenth since my schooling took place during the 1960’s. A member of my church congregation included the history of Juneteenth in a series of brief lessons on African American history each year in February. During the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln issued the Emancipation Proclamation, to be effective January 1, 1863. The website of the National Museum of African American History and Culture notes:

Enslaved people in Confederate States were declared legally free…Union soldiers marched onto plantations and across cities reading small copies of the Emancipation Proclamation. Freedom finally came on June 19, 1865, when some 2,000 Union Troops arrived in Galveston Bay, Texas. The army announced that the more than 250,000 enslaved black people in the state, were free by executive decree. [1]

The article includes this statement in closing:

The historical legacy of Juneteenth shows the value of never giving up hope in uncertain times.”

(emphasis added)

     I am glad that Juneteenth is a fully recognized federal holiday. I share the sentiment expressed by President Biden in the remarks he made when he signed the Act designating a nation-wide observance:

… Great nations don’t ignore their most painful moments. They don’t ignore those moments of the past. They embrace them. Great nations don’t walk away. We come to terms with the mistakes we made. And in remembering those moments, we begin to heal and grow stronger. [2]

     Juneteenth commemorates the day the final group of enslaved people in America learned they were free. There would be future struggles for equality, such as integration of the military and sports in the 1940’s, and desegregation of schools in 1954 following Brown vs. Board of Education. Further action in the 1960’s resulted in the Civil Rights Act and Voting Rights Act in 1965, and “Fair Housing Act” in 1968. “Liberty and justice for all” requires ongoing vigilance, but it started with liberty on Juneteenth.

     To conclude, celebrate liberty and acknowledge those who dedicated their lives to obtaining and defending our rights and freedoms. These observances also challenge us to follow their example. Whenever we see injustice, we should pray and take action as the Lord directs, thus continuing His mission:

The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me,

Because He has anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor;

He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted,

To proclaim liberty to the captives

And recovery of sight to the blind,

To set at liberty those who are oppressed;

 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD.” Luke 4:18-19, Isaiah 61:1 NKJV



[1] www.nmaahc.si.edu/explore/stories/historical-legacy-juneteenth (accessed 6/25/24) 

[2] https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/speeches-remarks/2021/06/17/remarks-by-president-biden-at-signing-of-the-juneteenth-national-independence-day-act/ (accessed 6/25/24)

 

 


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