Fathers Day Tribute

 

Photo: Gail K. Kachnycz; Mike & son Joshua. Fathers have a protective effect.

FATHERS DAY TRIBUTE By Gail K. Kachnycz on 6 June 2024

      Fathers are so important. The presence of a father who is involved and interested in the lives of his children has a protective effect that can be confirmed by research. This is true for biological fathers, adoptive fathers, and step-fathers. The National Fatherhood Initiative notes that having an involved father reduces the risk of these negative impacts on a child’s life:

https://www.fatherhood.org accessed 6/4/2024

      Being involved doesn’t only mean doing things together that require physical activity. A father with chronic illness can cheer on the sports team from the sidelines, or encourage children or grandchildren in whatever career or activity they are pursuing. Laying the foundation in childhood will result in relationships built on mutual respect, allowing the father to share the benefit of his experience with younger generations.

     One of the most important roles of a father is being a spiritual leader for his family. This requires discipline, effort, and strength, but not of a physical nature. A father with chronic illness or a physical disability can still pray for and guide his family.

     My husband Mike continues to provide spiritual oversight to our family. At Fathers Day I wish to acknowledge and honor how his presence blesses our family.

Photo: Gail K. Kachnycz: Mike enlisted the help of our son Jesse to test drive electric scooters. Time together does not need to require physical activity. A father with chronic illness can still be involved. 

Here are just two resources for fathers (there are many more):

Focus on the Family https://www.focusonthefamily.com

Book: The Men We Need by Brant Hansen